Stuck is a terrible state of mind. To be perfectly honest, I have felt stuck for quite some time despite all the work I’m doing. I suppose someone who isn’t stuck wouldn’t embark on a journey such as this, so perhaps this comes as no surprise. For me, stuck feels as if I’ve been confined
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Minimalism
Delete What No Longer Serves You
I stumbled upon a former friend’s birthday in my calendar when scheduling some appointments and my stomach dropped. When I originally entered the occasion eight or so years ago, I scheduled it to be repeated annually. When prompted for how long, I selected “forever”, what I assumed the duration of our friendship would be. I
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Happiness & Joy
My Secret Tip for Overcoming Dread
I have to work an event on Saturday and I’m really dreading the long night on my feet. Adding insult to injury, my husband and his family will be in Florida attending a wedding in Palm Beach. I can’t go, thanks to this obligation. I’ve accepted the fact I can’t go to Florida with little
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Encouragement
Stop Delaying the Pursuit of Your Dreams
If you’re not dedicating time and effort to your dreams, you’re delaying them from happening. It’s as simple as that. There are hundreds of reasons why we procrastinate pursuing our dreams, many of them having to do with the voices in our head. I don’t know how to start. Maybe this isn’t such a good
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Happiness & Joy
10 Mood-Boosting Tips to Feel Better Instantly
In August I wrote a list of ten things you can do to feel better when you’re feeling crappy. Things like be gentle to yourself, eat well, avoid negativity, etc. All great things and all proven to help you feel better. I stand by all of them. But sometimes those just aren’t enough. So here
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Encouragement
Relax, It’s Not About Luck
Wonderful readers, I am headed toward a perfect week! A “perfect” day for me is one in which I have exercised, eaten only foods that are good for me, meditated, and not smoked any cigarettes. (I confess I have taken up the occasional cigarette on weekends when socializing and it needs to STOP.) A “perfect”
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Happiness & Joy
A Destination for Your Appreciation
The concept of happiness as an achievable goal, something we can deliberately cultivate through practice and effort, is fundamental to the Buddhist view of happiness. One way to foster happiness is to practice gratitude by bringing the qualities of love and appreciation to life. We’ve all been taught to “be grateful” for any number of
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Encouragement
Supported
We all want to support our best friends and closest loved ones the best we know how. We also want to feel supported by them in return. It’s not always easy though, because just like how we all speak different primary love languages, I realize we all speak different primary support languages. Do you know
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Weight Loss
A Course in Weight Loss: Lessons IV – VI
The last time I wrote about A Course in Weight Loss, it was on lesson #3. I had described my altar as my safe place and what creating your safe place entails. Since then, my altar has become crowded, but in a good way. Over the weekend I completed lesson #6, so as part of
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Happiness & Joy
Share Your Happy
“Ready?” Kathy asked. “Ready.” “Okay, deep inhale, exhale, forward fold- AHHHHHHH!” It was 7:00 am on Saturday morning and Kathy and I had just started yoga on the beach when a large wave washed up and over our mats soaking everything. We quickly dragged our things farther back, laughing hysterically. “The ocean wants us to