We are all story-tellers. The only difference is that some of us write our stories down. But make no mistake about it, we’re all crafting stories in our heads starring the people in our lives, and we’re starring in their stories, too. These stories all have something in common: they are fiction. I’m talking about
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Encouragement
Better, Not Best: 10 Ways to be More Better
I had a crappy week at work. I’m not going into details, but I took work home with me emotionally and was generally just beaten down, stressed, anxious and aggravated. It happens. There was a time during the week that I thought to myself, I haven’t felt this anxious in a while, and then let
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Encouragement
Seize and Assist
* You only live once * Carpe Diem! * Live in the moment * Life is short * When in Rome * Now or never * What do you think when you hear these phrases? When standing alone, they are motivating and inspiring. But it seems they are most often uttered when someone is on
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Mindfulness & Peace
R.E.T.R.E.A.T.
I hadn’t slept so soundly since I was in Colorado. Perhaps it was the altitude. Or perhaps it was just being away and having no obligations or stresses. No pressing concerns or anxieties sneaking into my dreams causing alarm or restlessness. Three days into a writing retreat in Vermont was the first I had touched
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Happiness & Joy
Alone & Co.
I never liked my own company much. Spending time alone was an unfortunate last resort; something I did when there was absolutely no other option. Even then, I usually just slept that time away rather than hang out with myself. Furthermore, I detested being home. When I was younger I thought everyone was doing something
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Mindfulness & Peace
How to Create Your Safe Place
Where is your safe place? Meaning, where do you go when you’ve had enough for one day or when you’re depressed, hurt, broken-hearted, angry, or just need a break? For many people, it’s home, but where in your home? Do you have a place where you can shut out the world and be left alone?
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Mindfulness & Peace
Strengthening Self-Compassion: A Workout
When I first started this blog and wrote of my desire to be gentle and compassionate, I only had others in mind. I wanted to be a nicer and more loving person to those around me. Nowhere in that sentiment was I expressing an interest in being kinder or compassionate with me personally. I completely
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Encouragement
Eating Frogs & Talking to Yourself
I continue to be amazed by the timing and synchronicity of things. I can’t help but view these events as some sort of cosmic reassurance that I’m on the right track creating my own rituals, setting new moon intentions and working my way through A Course in Weight Loss to help overcome my emotional over-eating.
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Mindfulness & Peace
The Importance of Creating Our Own Rituals
Friday night I performed the release ritual I referenced in the post Brick by Brick: Tearing Down Your Emotional Wall, and it was incredible. I had a genuine spiritual experience and I feel… different. I feel lighter, happier, and most of all (and hardest to describe) I feel love, like I received a shot of
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Encouragement
How I Won the Weekend
Sitting playfully in six inches of saltwater, a beer in one hand and a book in the other, I turned my face up to the sun, smiled and thought to myself, life is good. It was an incredible day and I was at peace. Taking a little break from paddleboarding, not a care in the