Next week is my 35th birthday. In a matter of days I will be closer to forty than to thirty. Many people lament getting older. But not me. Maybe that’s because at 35 I feel the healthiest of mind, body and spirit I ever have. Maybe it’s all this knowledge that has come with age.
Blog
Mindfulness & Peace
How My Quest for Balance Became Unbalanced
It had been a really rough week and a half. It was the first time in a while I sat in my counselor’s office and cried sad, thick, tired tears. What was wrong? Nothing. And everything. Despite all I’ve learned and my quest for balance, I had gone and done it again. I put too
Read More
Encouragement
Note(s) to Self: How to Motivate & Encourage Your Future Self
Dear Jessica, I know you had a long week and you’re tired. But yoga would be a great way to end your week. Go to yoga class because it makes you feel wonderful. Then you can come home, take a nice shower, get into your pajamas, and enjoy a comfortable, well-deserved Friday night on the
Read More
Minimalism
Minimizing Priorities & Prioritizing Properly
My to-do list is long and I have many competing priorities at the moment. I’ve been feeling overwhelmed again. There is a tensity in my body. This uncomfortable sensation is a warning and a reminder that I need to focus, re-evaluate, and most of all, start minimizing priorities. Because everything can’t be a priority. Right?
Read More
Wellness
Is It Self-Care or Selfish: 7 Questions to Ask Yourself
This past weekend, I attended an Integrative Wellness and Life Coaching certification training. It was wonderful. All weekend I felt the sensation that I was in precisely the right spot at the right time. The training is where my journey took me, and it will continue towards certification. I have changed my life for the
Read More
Happiness & Joy
Jumping in at Hoyo Azul Cenote in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic
When traveling somewhere new, it’s important to leave the resort in order to say you’ve been there. I loved my time at Secrets Cap Cana in the Dominican Republic, but my desire to leave the comfort of the resort in order to see something unique was powerful. With limited money due to our unexpectedly extended
Read More
Mindfulness & Peace
Stuck in Punta Cana: An Exercise in Letting Go
I had just gotten another drink and was settling in to a lounge chair when my friend Rudy approached. “It’s official,” he said. “What’s official?” “Our flight was canceled.” Despite our anticipation that this would happen due to what was said to be a colossal snow storm headed to the northeast, the official word caught
Read More
Encouragement
Preparation for Vacation: My Surprising Revelation
Somewhere along the course of my life, I became convinced I didn’t deserve to feel good about myself. Well-manicured nails, nice clothes, special treatments… these things were exclusively reserved for thin, healthy women. They deserved them, not me. I’d have to earn them. And the only way I could earn them was to quit smoking
Read More
Writing
This is “One Lovely Blog”
As a wellness blogger, I share my journey to living a happier, healthier life. Everything that I’m learning, along with my triumphs and tribulations, I share here in hopes that I may positively impact at least one person. To know that I have been successful in that is glorious recognition. I know because Sarah Hawkins
Read More
Happiness & Joy
Bucket List in Reverse: Expressing Gratitude for All You’ve Done
Aspiring to do and see things is healthy. But unfortunately, once we’ve done or seen them we have a tendency to move right on to the next desire. We tend to cast away our past experiences into a ‘been there, done that’ box. The key to happiness is to compare ourselves not to those more